When Age Is Not A Barrier
By Geraldine Panapasa
Tuesday, April 07, 2009
Chirag Parmar is proud of his mother Rekha Parmar’s will power to further her education at the University of Fiji.
The best part is he gets to see his mother walk the halls of the university while making his way to his lectures at the same time.
Chirag and his mother attend the University of Fiji and while some feel uncomfortable at the thought of attending the same school with their parents, Chirag feels nothing but pride and love for his mother.
The 19-year old completed his secondary education at Natabua High in Lautoka and is pursuing a Bachelor of Commerce degree from the established university in Nadi.
“It doesn’t bother me that my mother and I attend the same university or that we’re schooling together,” Chirag said.
“In fact, I have a sense of pride that my mum is making the effort to go back to school and further her education.” Rekha Parmar, 44, was born and bred in Bombay, India and completed a Bachelor of Commerce from the University of Bombay.
She came to Fiji in 1990 and started a family, sacrificing her desire to continue with her education.
She said life was different back then because she had a family and her priority was providing for her children.
“I couldn’t continue with school because I had my children to take care of and I decided to work to help support the family,” Rekha said.
“I was always interested in teaching and I joined the workforce. I wanted to make use of my degree and do something.
I was bound with family commitments and I felt that teaching was one of the most satisfying professions.”
Rekha said when her children were old enough to look after themselves she decided to continue with her education.
She was involved with the Smart Kids program for primary school teaching. Her passion for teaching pushed her to enroll in an Edu-care program through the Sathya Sai organisation.
“It was a training centre. I completed a diploma in teaching. I also started taking classes in India for the education and human values program,” Rekha said.
She works at the Computer Studies Center in Lautoka and said her experience at the computer school persuaded her to enhance her qualifications.
“This place offered me the opportunity to continue with my studies and it guided me through the process of gaining higher qualifications,” she said.
“I feel good and happy that I’m able to continue with my education and even though I am in the same university as my son, I am proud of both of us.
After a lapse of so many years, I am proud that I’ve got the opportunity to go back to school.”
Rekha believes it’s never too late to go back to school or to do the things you want to do.
She has this year to complete a postgraduate diploma in teaching.
The eldest son in the family, Chirag said his mother is a good example for many people who think age is a barrier when it comes to getting a good education.
He said she has shown that age does not matter when education is involved and anyone can go back to school.
All they need is determination, hard work and sacrifice to succeed in the end.
“My mother has shown that age is no barrier when it comes to education. I am very proud of her and I’m happy that she has decided to continue with her studies,” said the former IQ Active member of Natabua.
“If you want to succeed in life, you have to get your priorities right. Education is very important and the most vital factor for young people is to listen to their parents and they can achieve success.”
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